For me, there's something different & beautiful about initiating the conversation to gauge what your person wants & requires of you, it's like the FNB slogan: HOW CAN WE HELP YOU. That's the love thing, the love way.
The love experience is so much more special when you don't feel like you always have to hussle your way to get bae to do what you want, but bae creates a platform for you to whisper your needs in safety. This is so beautiful, and can be rewarding when both people ask, listen and do (within reason).
Relationships shouldn't be wholy about getting, but mostly about giving & teaming. We ought to be whole by ourselves, and more powerful together.
When we both put in the effort, a loveship will not feel laborious, instead it will just work. Effort becomes natural. Giving eases in and words are matched with actions.
We spend so much time trying to get and get, and wanting the right fit for us. Yet there's something remarkably beautiful about being to others what we want for ourselves. In this way, we are able to attract to ourselves what we really want. Because in the end, we reap what we've sown.
