His name is Ryan. My little-big King

What I am into:

I sum it up into these 3: character, vision & health.

As a whole, I lead a very quiet & simple life, so I like simplicity & quietness of life  in the people I go out with.

Character: I am very atrracted to kindness, man! I believe it's rooted in character. Someone who stands for something, lives beyond themselves, and is fuelled by a heart for people. The person believes they can change the world & they dare do it

Vision: I like certainty, security & comfort. So it's important to me that I meet someone who has vision. This means they should be able to articulate where they are now and where they want be, and more importantly to me, where I fit in into all of it.
Because my primary love languages are presence & words of affirmation, I am predominantly a communicator. I like to know know where I stand with someone, so often I struggle to "read" actions cause I can't distinguish whether they were done with romance or friendship in mind. I like the comfort of clarity. I therefore have preference for people that say what they want, mean what they say, and match words with actions.  I've found myself in situationships where I was both wondering & wandering, and I don't like it.

Vision also speaks to someone who has the smarts to challenge my views & mannerisms with the intent to grow me. I think relationships should create a space where I can critique bae (with love) and even offer him advice about his business without him feeling any less of a man. Unfortunately, culture is that bae should be invincible. Reality is that we are a team.

Health: Not quite abs & all, but there's nothing more attractive than someone who takes care of themself, smells good, understands that health is wealth. I have lumps and bumps but I'm putting in the effort to get toned and active, and I'd enjoy someone like that. It's the effort that's beautiful, and that goes for everything, you know, the effort even when you are busy, things like remebering that I have an exam or that I am flying out of town for a bit and sending me a text to wish me well, or a surprise text during the day requiring me to smile. Effort is everything.

Yeah, this is what I normally go for