Extra-matured thoughts

These are but some of the random thoughts I have been having lately around 4am. Thoughts about life- influenced more so by a recent break-up and my exposure to relationships. I suppose this is just me justifying to myself that I HAD to let this go, and that even though it hurts at the moment , there's no need for me to harbor malice and to hold back on forgiveness. This is not to say I was in a toxic relationship. But 'being away' hurts just as bad.

I promised myself
I promised myself I would never be that woman
That woman that habitually returns to their abuser
I promised myself

Rejection is not to your personal value,
it is about the other's preferences.
Do not devalue yourself by being miserable.
Allow people the right to choose what they prefer, 
and if you are not it- well honey; keep on steppin'

I think people always have 2 choices in life
1) To wait and wait and wait miserably until someone
apologizes before they free them-self through forgiveness
or
2)To free them-self from bondage by 'freely' forgiving .

I think option 2 is always better. You avoid all the misery, and all you need is a conversation with self.

We give away our freedom by  being convinced that people owe us an apology

Never let feelings of hurt take away from the feelings of greatness and love that you shared with them. Beautiful memories were meant to be treasured.

Silence speaks volumes. It is the act of not acting. Silence speaks just as well

Love beareth under anything

Never be ready to compromise your beliefs for feelings,
unless that feeling is compassion

Love fully
Love freely
Love like a child, holding nothing back
Love

Though you may not see it, though you may not feeling. It is there. Yes- there's hope for you. Someone can love YOU forever. Believe it!

Yours in love

T